To start off im almost 14 and he is 15. We have been firends for about 5 years and now he says he wants to go. So I said yes. Than about a week later this whole sex thing came up and he says if i dont have sex with him he will tell everyone i cheated on him and had sex with his best friend. We are supossed to do it this Friday so i need help fast. I want to save our relationship, at least as friends. Someone please help me!What should i do if my best guy firend wants to hve sex and i dont? how do i save the relationship?
Whatever you do, please don't sleep with him. I'm going to be blunt: he doesn't love you and I'd question whether or not he even cares about you as a friend. A friend, ESPECIALLY as a best friend, would never try to pressure you into having sex by threatening to blackmail you like that. That's a truly despicable act that indicates a strong potential for abuse. I personally don't even understand why you would want to remain friends with someone who clearly disrespects you by trying to take advantage of your trust. If I were you, I'd break up with him immediately (like, right now) and avoid him until he starts treating you the way a real friend would.What should i do if my best guy firend wants to hve sex and i dont? how do i save the relationship?
Wow, that's tough. Well first of, he's not being a friend if he's threatning you like that, if i were you, i wouldn't want to save the friendship and if he reallys cares about you %26amp; the friendship you guys carry then he could make an *** of himself and say all of that, as long as you know it's not true, theres nothing you shouldn't worry about, don't make a mistake you'll regret later. Hope this helps !
He's playing you like a fiddle, girl. You are too young to have sex, he is pressuring you for one thing only and that is it. Dump him because he is using you just for the SEX. This is no friend worth having to treat you this way. He is trying to scare you into having Sex with him. Ignore the threats and DUMP THE JERK, NOW!!!
Exactly what is it about blackmailers (blackmail is a crime, BTW) you like that you would consider for one second keeping one in your life? Face it, anyone who attempts to force you to do something against your will is not a friend let a lone a best friend. Wake up and smell reality.
Why would you even want to stay friends with him if he's doing this?
Have some self respect. End it now. You don't deserve that.
talk to him about it and if he can't understand then he's not good enough for you