Friday, August 20, 2010

How do you know when to give up on a relationship?

I have been with my boyfriend for over a year..


He is an amazing person and i love him alot. When we were good we were amazing i was sure he was the man i would marry.


However i believe we moved too fast we became too close too soon living together about a month after we meet.


Now we are in a long distance relationship and we are fighting all the time both when we are apart and when we see eachother.


I would give anything to get back what we had and he says the same thing, but what ever we do it just seems to be lost.


How do you know when to give up on getting back what you knew was perfect?How do you know when to give up on a relationship?
You could try couples counseling before you give up. It may be salvagable.How do you know when to give up on a relationship?
The thing about dating is that it all comes down to your mentality, on how you see it. I have had this wonderful dating experience which might be quite surprising for many people who read this.


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when your asking questions like this..
you should give up now. i always say live with that person before you get married.thats exactly what you did and it worked out perfectly. if you had not moved in so soon and waited longer the same would have happen anyways. it was unavoidable, once you start living with that person then the real person comes out!
it takes time, and also sexual attraction is a big thing. if you find yourself not wanting to get intimate with him then maybe deep down you dont ahve feelings for him anymore
Long distance relationships rarely ever work. it is a strain on both of you not knowing what the other is doing, and not being able to spend enough time together. Also, it gives you too much time to think about the things that bother you about each other.





You can make it work, if you truly love each other, but it is really going to be hard. Distance is evil in a relationship.
';Perfect'; doesn't exist, sorry, though it may feel that way. Long distance relationships statistically do not last unfortunately. My suggestion is to move back in together and see if that helps relieve the stress that makes you both argue so much. And if you both Truly feel that you love each other and want the relationship to work, it might be good to seek a counselor. Best of luck to you both.

How do i get out of this relationship?

okay so this is an extremely complicated situation. A year ago i met this girl who at first i hated, but then she kept talking to me day and night, never stopping, and i began to realize that she was the only thing in my life that was really good. she was kind of mean to me, but also i felt like she wanted me to be happy. I became extremely attached to her, and then she moved really far away. I saw her once this year, and that was months ago%2How do i get out of this relationship?
ok. Just stop talking to her. It doesn't sound like you guys are in a relationship. Just tell her you are moving on/ you dont love her.How do i get out of this relationship?
Some times when you lose someone in your life, it is really hard and it might feel like an addiction... I do not know your situation and don't mean this in a bad way, maybe try to find another person that is concerned for you, and is not mean to you.
lessen your talks with her..and slowly end it up
Start talking to lots of other women. Eventually something will happen and you'll be attached to someone else. It's amazing how quick moving on can be.

How far is too far at the start of a relationship?

I recently met the nicest guy I've ever had the pleasure of meeting and we're looking at the possibility of starting to see one another. The only real sticking point is the distances involved - we live about an hour from eachother and that's set to increase in the upcoming months. I have really good feelings about the potential here, but I'm not sure how to justify the distance to myself and the accused guy at such an early stage in a relationship. Is this too much distance to get involved with, or how best can we mitigate the effect?





(Background info, both students living with parents at the moment)How far is too far at the start of a relationship?
Hm, well perhaps you could get to know him a bit better and then decide if dealing with the distance is worth it. It all depends on how much you like this guy and how far you're willing to go for him. Don't be afraid to reach out, yet don't be afraid to be a bit cautious as well. It's all about timing.





I suggest that you and he talk on the phone often, text and IM as much as possible-if you decide to start something with him. It'll help a lot to make the distance to seem like less of an issue. Good luck! :)How far is too far at the start of a relationship?
I've known a few people that have dated across countries/ hemispheres. It all depends on the two people involved. Some people can do Long distance relationships while others can't
if you have way to get to him then don't worry about it just have fun. And if you don't have a way then find one. you can do it Trust me did it when I did not have a car as a teen.

Relationship?

I currently have a very good friend who I have sept with once since we stopped dating. He now has a girfriend and I want her to know that he is stepping out on her....I have written her e-mails and talked to her, but I keep telling him that it is not me. I tell him that it is her and luckily he believes me. I still have strong feelings for him and I would do anything, such as what I have done, to get him back. If I tell him that I have been e-mailing her then he will stop talking to me. How can I be honest with him, and keep him as a friend?Relationship?
I hate to point out to you something you probably already know, but what you're doing is wrong. Let me rephrase that: lying to this guy is wrong. You did what you did with a man who is supposed to be committed to another. I've been there, done that, felt guilty, got over it. That being said, why do you want her to know? Because you think he was wrong in cheating? Because you feel guilty? Now did you think about the fact that since he cheated on her, he might cheat on you if the two of you were to get back together? Or do you truly believe what the two of you have is that different? And sadly, there is no easy way out of this predicament. If you care so much about him, you need to tell him the truth. Its a tough thing to do, I do, but its what you gotta do. He'll probably get upset, but you had it coming. If he's the generous sort, he'll still be a friend. Or you could just keep going the way you are and not tell him, keep denying it, who knows, maybe that'll be easier.Relationship?
Just keep lying or you could tell him the truth and be miserable all your life.
Do not sleep with people who are involved. Worry a little more about your dignity and a little less about your feelings and friendships, and both of those will be better off as well.
Personally.....if I were you....I'd take his pet dog and bbq it over his fireplace....let him find it. Then I'd take used tampons and a little duct tape and write ';I luv u'; on his bathroom mirror, then I'd take a soldering gun and burn his name onto my back, call the cops, say he did it in a moment of violent passion (lot of tears) then visit him in jail and tell him you'll testify in court that you asked for it if he promises marry you. If he says yes....get it witnessed and notarized.
First what are you thinking emailing the new girlfriend. He will surely find out it's you! Stop now! Why don't you just be honest and tell him you still have feelings for him. Find out if there's any way you can start to see each other on a more personal basis. What you're currently doing just makes him turn towards her. Silly girl if he's stepping out on her, he probably is seeing not only you but others as well. Is this really the kind of guy you want? Reconsider this entire relationship, sounds like all the girls in his life are going to be hurt one way or another.
You need to make up your mind if you want him as a friend or lover... first, don't let him know about the emails... you'll for sure lose him''' next, do you think he'll cheat on you??? that's something to think about... also the girl may rat you out on the emails and you tellingall the details of his extra on the side... back off wll of it... and win him over the right way... then you'll have him forever... if you stick to the person he falls in love with... hope this helps...

Why do you seek relationships? Is it because you can't stand being alone or do you think you need to be in?

one?


Is it something else? How long can you go before seeking out a relationship?


Explain.Why do you seek relationships? Is it because you can't stand being alone or do you think you need to be in?
I do not seek a relationship because i cant stand being alone or single. I am actually very happy when single. I definitely dont seek one because i think i need to be in one.





I think for me, I just want the chance to have that amazing feeling you have when youre in love with someone who loves you back, just as much. I want to make someone experience that extraordinary feeling as well, because everyone deserves it... :)Why do you seek relationships? Is it because you can't stand being alone or do you think you need to be in?
The problem is that in these times, most of the girls out there are drugged up, club hopping, ';bisexual for attention';, chlamydia riddled whores that are sleeping with everyone and everything. Most of them are just after money and are willing to blow whoever they have to for some overpriced trinkets that their materialistic a$$es don't really need in the first place.





I have enough weed to last me a while and I don't feel like contracting the incurable gonorrhea just yet. I can wait a little longer....
lacking self-confidence or self-love will make a person get into a relationship in order to fill in the gap and get emotional attention INSTEAD of choosing wisely %26amp; with an open heart the right person for him/her,


the right persons are the ones we love for whom they are and NOT because they make us feel better about ourselves,


learning to appreciate and accept ourselves are the first steps towards finding our most suitable partners.


having friends, a passion or goal in life iare also good ways not to enter a relationship due to the feeling of emptiness...


nothing takes the place of an intimate partner, all what I mean is: being the best of who we are is the best start toward being in a better a relationship
Our purpose for living is to procreate. We need a partner of the opposite sex to do that. That's half of the reason. The other half is, in today's society, it's really difficult to procreate without having that partner of the opposite sex around for at least 18 years. Humans don't raise children communally anymore....at least not in the U.S. I'm pretty sure there are still some cultures in the world that do, though.
actually it's the other way around.....i can't stand being with someone all the time...i want to be left alone!......but i actually do want a relationship....just with someone who is ok with doing his own thing and lets me do my own thing some times
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  • How come men never get looked down at when they get caught cheating?

    How come whenever a man is caught cheating he isn't the one who takes all the blame? Why is it that the other woman takes all the responsibility for the relationship when the man was just as bad if not worse seeing how he let something like that go on? Just curious after seeing all these stars get caught cheating and then everyone blames the other women completely but just slaps the men on the hand and says ';they have an addiction'; or that ';boys will be boys'; bull crap? I'm not saying the other woman isn't to blame but seeing how the man is putting his family and everything on the line shouldn't he get equally blamed too???How come men never get looked down at when they get caught cheating?
    Somehow society thinks a women should have more values and morals, I have no idea why this is the case. You would expect a man to behave with just as much integrity.How come men never get looked down at when they get caught cheating?
    I'll give you a second name. Jesse James. I have heard nobody say anything bad about his mistresses (h#ll, they media even showed the one sympathy that got played)





    Pretty much everybody thinks Jesse James is a complete idiot, and I've haven't heard anybody pulling punches on that.
    In a relationship where at least one of the persons is ';cheating';, it's a shared responsibility and I haven't seen it otherwise. If a single woman goes out with a married man, they are both at fault. If a single man goes out with a married woman, ditto.
    Because a cheating woman is 1,000 times worse. If a man cheats, he cannot tell the wife that she is mother of his child. Therefore, his cheating does little or no harm. However, when a woman cheats, she can and will tell the husband that he is the father. Therefore, her cheating is horrible and is a huge injustice.
    i do not see the men getting away with anything look at the hell the golfer went Thur and is going through .but when i guy gets lucky he is a stud but the girl put out and is looked down at .that is the why it is.and ya i am glad i am a guy.
    you can thank our society. Women still make only 70 cents for every dollar a man makes in the same field with the same experience. I know-its hypocritical but currently thats the way it is.
    What planet have you been living on for the last 6 months? Have you seen the beating that Tiger has taken in the media, financially, ...?
    Tiger Woods is a prime example of why WOMEN want attention and try to become famous off the backs of stars by dropping the bombs, and not always telling the complete truth.





    Nobody really knows what goes on in someone's marriage. They can look perfectly fine on the outside, but when you get them behind closed doors, it's a different story all together.





    Just because his wife is hot, doesn't mean that she isn't a *****. It doesn't mean she wasn't lacking in support for her husband through things, etc...I don't know the inner workings of Tiger's marriage nor anyone else's but mine and neither do any of us. We get one sided stories from our friends that are usually told in a way to slant blame on the other spouse when in fact we in the lease should take some responsibility for their infidelity.





    If people minded their own business, tended to their own marriages, paid attention to their spouses verbal and non-verbal communication...there would be a lot less infidelity to begin with.
    1 name; Tiger Woods. You're an idiot if you think no one has talked badly about the incident(s).
    The women who cheated with Tiger were just as much to blame as him, if not worse, knowing that he is a married man. These women who cheated with Tiger have no pride or self esteem - they obviously have no self worth and Tiger was obviously NOT choosy who he had sex with. Very Sad!


    Tigers wife is definitely a victim of a man with absolutely no self control or shame.
    sleeping around (when you're a man) is cool. it makes you a pimp and a rebel, they're ';bad boys'; and women go for that. women like the riskiness of being a mistress. but they're looked at as whores. what kind of a woman would sleep with a married man?! how dare she! (i guess society expects women to have more decency and more morals than men) but men do it so much that people just assume thats how they are, and its normal for them to do.
    I think they are both equally to blame and they deserve eachother, except in the case where the woman is innocent and has no clue because she has been lied to. But I think men are looked down upon esp. since many woman sacrifice career and their lives to raise his children and when a woman seduces a married man (which does happen) and she knows his married and with kids, she's just a ______, just like him. Hence they deserve eachother. And it's bad because the STD rate is 1 in 4 has an STD.
    People can and do get angry at their boyfriends for cheating on them and a lot of them leave them. And this is harsh for a lot of people to find out, but if you don't get mad at your boyfriend for cheating, he'll lose respect for you.
    The man is primarily to blame, and so is his partner. When a partner cheats there is a marriage problem not a husband or wife who cheats problem but a joint marriage problem. The affair is only a symptom a much deeper issue in the relationship. I have counseled too many couples to believe in innocent spouses - there are virtually none. The cheater and their partner both played a role in the affair. Frankly I could care less about the other woman or the other man in some cases - they are only a symptom and if it wasn't them it would be someone else.








    two examples:





    A guy works 12-16 hours a day earning a good living while his wife is home with two kids and hardly has any adult time with her husband. Is he innocent when she falls for a neighbor who does have to time to make her feel special? or did he fail in his obligation to her too?





    Another couple married for many years. She decides the marriage was a mistake and cuts off any intimacy. After 5 years of living separately in the same home, he has an affair with one of his graduate students. She finds out and files divorce claiming adultery. Is she innocent? Or was she the first to violate the wedding vows?





    Here is a rare innocent spouse story: Man marries a woman who had used drugs in past but had been clean for 2 years. They marry have a son and after 4 years she annouces that while she likes her marriage - a sober life cannot compete with the drug life she knew and loved and she has decided to return to the streets of the city. She leaves the child with him and walks out of their lives to be addict in DC.

    How to make a graph on Pages or Numbers that include an equation and r虏 value?

    I need to make a graph showing the inverse relationship between pressure and volume of gases (Boyle's Law). I have the data, but I don't know how to make the graph correctly. Any help?How to make a graph on Pages or Numbers that include an equation and r虏 value?
    You can make graphs using Microsoft excel (if you have it). Or I found a graph making site: http://nces.ed.gov/nceskids/createagraph鈥?/a>


    Good luck.How to make a graph on Pages or Numbers that include an equation and r虏 value?
    you can do it all in word. just go to table at the top and go down to insert table. and for the equations, go to visible buttons and make it so superscript and subscript are visible.

    How can I redevelop our friendship again?

    So I used to be friends with this girl, it was several months before. Ever since then, our relationship has deteriorated. How can I get her to trust me again, and to be close with her just like before? I still really want to be friends with her still, but whenever I try and talk with her, it's like she doesn't care anymore and things get kind of awkward.





    Please give me some suggestions!How can I redevelop our friendship again?
    Well Watever You Did Seems Pretty Bad. But Just Pull Her To The Side (Be Serious) And Tell Her How You Feel And Wat You Want To Happen And Be Like ';I'm Really Sorry I Hurted You And I Promise I Wont Ever Do It Again Now Will You Please Talk To Me';- I Promise You This Will Work Trust Me Im A Girl I Would No.

    How do you regain trust from your boyfriend?

    After having a rough start of our relationship due to the past i had with my ex that i didnt end, how do you gain trust againHow do you regain trust from your boyfriend?
    it depends on the situation.. what made it rough?





    what makes it relationship work is that you have to respect each other, have faith in each other, trust each other, care for each other, etc.


    you can't really keep secrets, like cheating on the other person, you shouldn't let that happen.. but if you do, you need to tell them. you have to let them know that you care, that you're there for them, that you trust them, that you respect them, if you don't, most likely it won't work for a long time.How do you regain trust from your boyfriend?
    It's hard to say...when you lose trust over something like that, it really is nearly impossible to gain it back. I don't know...sit down with him and get all the things that you might still haven't told him out on the table, to show him that you're resolving to be honest with him for here on out, and try to be completely honest from now on...
    boy, that's a tough question to answer. i won't give you any false hopes of any kind. i'm sorry but what ever you do to change things the past is always lingering close by. stay in tune for something to prove yourself to him and grab onto it. it might still take many of those proofs to get what you want. living the reformed life style will succeed for you . he can tell....i could .
    Give him damn near everything he asks. And if he asks for something unreasonable, then don't get angry at him just try to calmly explain why you have a problem with it. Two or three weeks of that should be the solution you're looking for, anything more and he might be using you.
    Trust in earned. With any type of relationship, it usually takes a long time to earn full trust.


    So give your relationship time and love, be open and, of course, don't do anything else to break that trust.
    This one is entirely up to you. No-one knows you two like you two, so I really couldn't tell you what makes him tick. I could only recommend sticking to any promises you make and following through with promises you make to yourself.





    Good luck :)
    It's kind of difficult. But try to do things that will slowly let your boyf regain trust in you. But it might take a long time I'm afraid. However if you really love your boyf, you gotta try it. Good luck!:)
    In order for someone to have trust in you, you need to be, wait for it.......TRUSTWORTHY!





    What does that mean exactly!? Trust boils down to honesty. So if you are honest, he MAY trust you again someday.
    Give him everything he wants, no matter what it is!
    Get a New ONE!!
    you cant; once you lose trust; its damn near impossible to get back

    How can I choose a career that honors God?

    So I am going to be finished with high school pretty soon and have started thinking about college, but Im not sure if what I want to do honors God. I love history and would love and would love to do that, but does it honor God? I also am interested in art, music, and writing but Im really not sure if these are careers for a person in a relationship with Christ.How can I choose a career that honors God?
    Pray about it, and God will open then door that's right for you.How can I choose a career that honors God?
    Of course they are! There is absolutely nothing about any of your listed careers which proves to be anti- God. It says in the bible that God gives us gifts and talents to use to honor him. Therefore, God granted you with the talents of art, music, and writing so its important that you find a way to honor him through those interests. However, it doesn't have to be directly. You can honor him simply in the way you live your life and conduct yourself at work so that you inspire others to live like you n a God-fearing manner. You can also honor him by not writing or creating art and music that sends negative message. Ultimately, it is important that your actions and your personality honor him.





    If you really want a career directly linked to God and your religion, here are a few options:





    -Christian Author (Create fictions or novels created around the image of God and those who love/ honor him... if you haven't heard of this, check out a christian book store. I recommend the Christy Miller Collection)





    -Christian Musician





    -Design Christian T-shirts





    -Design logos/ advertisements for Christian organizations.





    -Illustrate for Christian story books.





    There are hundreds of possibilities for you to find a career centered around your interests while still honoring God!





    P.s: Good for you! I think it's great that you are so concerned with God's desires for your life and focusing on honoring him. Remember to pray and ask him to lead you in the right direction of picking a career path.





    Good luck, I'll be praying for you!
    what ever you chose, remember the younger generation look up to those before them, it has always been this way, therefor the saying you are your brothers keeper
    As long as you honor and glorify him in whatever you do, He will bless you. Shine for Jesus!
    Go to Africa and feed the dying children.
    Maybe just study what ur into like art, music, history and then work as a teacher in a Christian school?


    I would suggest u to pray and see what God tells u...
    We are created in his image, if you feel like you have a knack for something, than you should pursue it. If you want a job that suppoorts the church, perhaps you could look into historians at the vatican, cathedrals, or history museums (as most have some aspect of religion). Hope that helps
    Just do what you want to do with your life- religion isn't supposed to be something to hold you back.


    I mean, as long as you don't plan on working the street corner or something like that, you're fine.
    Maybe Catholic Social Justice or something?


    Church musician, or religious instructor/advisor?
    Study Chaplaincy...
    You don't have to become a pastor or a missionary to honor God. You can do that in any profession, the best thing to do is to pray and ask God what HE wants you to do.
    God gave you talents %26amp; skills. Honor him by pursuing them, not by sacrificing them for some ';higher purpose.';
    You might discover the answer by attending a school where the goal is to prepare men and women to serve God.





    http://www.kingsseminary.edu/





    http://www.regentundergrad.com/





    I'm sure there are more.
    Well the best of course involves working with spirit, such as a spiritual healer. But of course not many can do this. But I dont think it really matters, maybe do something where you feel you make a difference. Just follow your heart. :)

    How important is it that the person you marry has the same religious beliefs?

    I know it differs I just want to hear from different people. How important and why? and not only marriage but to be in a serious relationship with too?How important is it that the person you marry has the same religious beliefs?
    as long as the persons spiritual core is the same i wont want to kill herHow important is it that the person you marry has the same religious beliefs?
    Not Important :)
    Depends on the person, If you are a strong believer and want your lover to have the same beliefs then thats that. But if you don't care. Then thats fine too.
    It's at the very core of the relationship. It is the very center of what matters most in the relationship. If two people do not have this in common, their relationship will perish. Opposites may physically attract. But, spiritually, opposites cannot co-exist.





    To clarify, I am a former Catholic turned non-denominational Christian. I have no interest in being in a relationship with someone who is not a non-denominational Christian.
    It depends on the couple, as there are different variations on religious conviction and how strongly those involved feel about the differences they find.
    personally, I have never been with someone close to my ';religion';. I am catholic...well I was. I don't claim a religion as of right now but I do believe in God. I am currently engaged to someone who is Seventh Day Adventist. It's kind of hard because his family gets angry with him when they find out he goes places on saturdays. But I don't think it is important for me because I am open to everything.
    the foundations of most religions are the same: be a good person. so honestly, i don't think it really matters.
    OK, so for the relationship between the 2 people, it doesn't matter all that much. Now, for all of the parents and families, it could (depending on the religion). I've seen Protestants marry Jewish and Hindi and the differences are so great that you're talking cultural differences and that could be tough to get over. At the least, it puts an undue strain on the marriage.
    Depends what marriage is to you. You also failed to mention what religion ? Could make for some family issues. The ultimate commitment, I think about all the divorce I've witnessed. If you love someone, getting married adds nothing. Religion should not be an issue between you , if it's already arrived as a potential issue, you already have doubt. Not a good sign for a lifelong commitment.
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  • How do I meet guys in college?

    I'm having trouble finding guys in college, which is weird considering there are so many. It seems like they are either in a relationship or uninterested in being in one. Where should I look to find guys? Or should I stop looking?How do I meet guys in college?
    College has a lot of great places to meet guys. The key is not to rush. Just take you time looking around for the right guy :)





    Here are some ideas:


    Friends of friends - this way you have a middle man to pass information on if the guy likes you or not.





    Classes - yeah, you've already checked the class you have now, but what about next quarter?! :)





    Parties - there are parties going on EVERYWHERE! You just need to get some friends together and start going to them. There are tons of guys at parties.





    The Library - Start doing your studying there %26amp; always keep your eyes open for a hottie!





    Lunch Room - ';Is this seat taken?';





    Dorm room or House - Go meet the neighbors! Also go meet the neighbors at all your friends places as well. (That's how I met most the guys I dated in college.)





    A few more:





    Join a coed softball team.


    Get involved in a campus club that is mostly full of guys.


    Go to sporting events just to scope of guys you think are cute and once you spot one go up and talk to him.


    Sit around the campus square in a cute outfit looking available and wait till guys come up and talk to you (yes it does work).How do I meet guys in college?
    im in college to (and a girl) and id love to know the answer to this as well.





    its true that some guys just arent interested in a relationship because they want a booty call

    How did moving in with your bf/gf change your relationship?

    For practical reasons, my bf and I have been talking about moving in together (we're both moving out of our parents' homes and could afford an apartment together when we couldn't afford one each yet!). We'll have been together for 7 months by the time we do it.





    I'd have ideally liked to have left it a year before living together, but circumstances mean that if we don't get an apartment together, the relationship will extremely long distance and hardly feasible!





    Any advice you can offer? How did moving in with a partner change your relationship?


    Thanks very much.How did moving in with your bf/gf change your relationship?
    youll find out things about him that you never would have found out otherwise. youll have to take it one day at a time but it all depends on how you approach it. just be aware that hes not perfect and youre not perfect. maybe for starters the two of you should get a two bedroom apartment if youre that uncomfortable that way you still have your own space. as time goes on you could sleep in the same room together and when one of you gets upset just go sleep in the other room. it will take some time getting used to at first though.How did moving in with your bf/gf change your relationship?
    My boyfriend and I have lived together since the beginning and it has been 3 years. And I'm not gonna lie, we fight alot more, lol, but we love each other, and he's my best friend, and when we are bored, we just have sex.
    Yeah i agree, get two bedrooms unless your ready for some snoring, late night Farts, Morning Breath? uh the worst! jk yeah if you do move in together best advice i can give you is make it a two bedroom you two need the space.

    One more question for you - how does this sound for a start?

    If you didn't see my other two questions, here's the deal: my friend and I want to make a website with high school help and advice. How do these topics sound?





    Starting/Being a Freshman


    - Information on orientation, the first few weeks, meeting new people, ';culture'; shock, teachers, etc.





    Getting Through


    - How to make the days more enjoyable and keep yourself motivated





    Friendship


    - Making and keeping friends and dealing with issues





    Relationships


    - Talking to people of the opposite sex, making a move, handling relationships





    Homework


    - How to do it, when to do it, where to do it, etc.





    Clubs/Activities


    - Advice for what to get involved in, what you can expect, the opportunities you have, etc.





    Is there anything you would remove or add? We're open to any ideas. Thank you again!One more question for you - how does this sound for a start?
    Looks good. How about a section on Transferring. It's definitely different than being a Freshman.One more question for you - how does this sound for a start?
    Sounds good, but as somebody mentioned in the last question a bullying section would be a REALLY good idea.
    You need a bullying section :( think of all the teens who would need it! :(





    Edit:


    Bullying


    - How you know you're being bullied


    - How to get help for bullying


    - What to do when others are being bullied





    I was harassed before, but didn't know how to handle it. (I'm sure people have been harassed before as well) Imagine if I did something really bad to myself, what if I had a website to help me with being bullied/harassed. You could possibly save a life (sorry if i sounded corny or stupid)

    LADIES: How can a dominant male find a submissive women before their involved with a SCREW UP?

    LADIES: How can a dominant male find a submissive women before their involved with a SCREW UP?





    Q's :


    A: Are you taking what ever comes along?


    B: Do you actual meet guys who your interested in while dating another %26amp; don't know how or want to end the current relationship?


    C: If single, Would you be interested in Emailing me rather Facebook, Myspace,Tagged,etc?LADIES: How can a dominant male find a submissive women before their involved with a SCREW UP?
    I am a submissive kind of girlfriend.





    Email ME.

    How can I redevelop our friendship again?

    So I used to be friends with this girl, it was several months before. Ever since then, our relationship has deteriorated. How can I get her to trust me again, and to be close with her just like before? I still really want to be friends with her still, but whenever I try and talk with her, it's like she doesn't care anymore and things get kind of awkward.





    Please give me some suggestions!How can I redevelop our friendship again?
    Well Watever You Did Seems Pretty Bad. But Just Pull Her To The Side (Be Serious) And Tell Her How You Feel And Wat You Want To Happen And Be Like ';I'm Really Sorry I Hurted You And I Promise I Wont Ever Do It Again Now Will You Please Talk To Me';- I Promise You This Will Work Trust Me Im A Girl I Would No.

    How much time should you spend with your significant other?

    How much time, a week, should you be with your boyfriend? I've been working a lot lately and in the future I will be working even more, and I'm worried that this is going to hurt our relationship and even make him want somebody else! I'm not saying he's a cheater or a liar, but what if we're only together 1 night a week over the summer??How much time should you spend with your significant other?
    just spend all the time that you can with them, and cherish every second of it(:





    any time you spend with them is good enough(:How much time should you spend with your significant other?
    i had the same problem so i reserved my weekends for her... so u should spend at least two days of quality time together and let him know that ur trying ur best and also let him know that being broke aint no joke :)
    oooh no you really need to find some time for your boyfriend because eventually they will just look for some one that gives them the time they need and deserve
    well just tell him how you feel and make sure he knows what he is getting himself into. your suppose to spend as much time as you possibly can.
    to be honest if its only one night a week that u be seeing on another make it special for u both if u are working alot... maybe a meal cuddle up and watch a dvd etc or night out to bowling or something just have a laugh your boyfriend will understand so dont worry
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    I'm having trouble finding guys in college, which is weird considering there are so many. It seems like they are either in a relationship or uninterested in being in one. Where should I look to find guys? Or should I stop looking?How do I meet guys in college?
    College has a lot of great places to meet guys. The key is not to rush. Just take you time looking around for the right guy :)





    Here are some ideas:


    Friends of friends - this way you have a middle man to pass information on if the guy likes you or not.





    Classes - yeah, you've already checked the class you have now, but what about next quarter?! :)





    Parties - there are parties going on EVERYWHERE! You just need to get some friends together and start going to them. There are tons of guys at parties.





    The Library - Start doing your studying there %26amp; always keep your eyes open for a hottie!





    Lunch Room - ';Is this seat taken?';





    Dorm room or House - Go meet the neighbors! Also go meet the neighbors at all your friends places as well. (That's how I met most the guys I dated in college.)





    A few more:





    Join a coed softball team.


    Get involved in a campus club that is mostly full of guys.


    Go to sporting events just to scope of guys you think are cute and once you spot one go up and talk to him.


    Sit around the campus square in a cute outfit looking available and wait till guys come up and talk to you (yes it does work).How do I meet guys in college?
    im in college to (and a girl) and id love to know the answer to this as well.





    its true that some guys just arent interested in a relationship because they want a booty call

    How can I choose a career that honors God?

    So I am going to be finished with high school pretty soon and have started thinking about college, but Im not sure if what I want to do honors God. I love history and would love and would love to do that, but does it honor God? I also am interested in art, music, and writing but Im really not sure if these are careers for a person in a relationship with Christ.How can I choose a career that honors God?
    Go to Africa and feed the dying children.How can I choose a career that honors God?
    Well the best of course involves working with spirit, such as a spiritual healer. But of course not many can do this. But I dont think it really matters, maybe do something where you feel you make a difference. Just follow your heart. :)
    Of course they are! There is absolutely nothing about any of your listed careers which proves to be anti- God. It says in the bible that God gives us gifts and talents to use to honor him. Therefore, God granted you with the talents of art, music, and writing so its important that you find a way to honor him through those interests. However, it doesn't have to be directly. You can honor him simply in the way you live your life and conduct yourself at work so that you inspire others to live like you n a God-fearing manner. You can also honor him by not writing or creating art and music that sends negative message. Ultimately, it is important that your actions and your personality honor him.





    If you really want a career directly linked to God and your religion, here are a few options:





    -Christian Author (Create fictions or novels created around the image of God and those who love/ honor him... if you haven't heard of this, check out a christian book store. I recommend the Christy Miller Collection)





    -Christian Musician





    -Design Christian T-shirts





    -Design logos/ advertisements for Christian organizations.





    -Illustrate for Christian story books.





    There are hundreds of possibilities for you to find a career centered around your interests while still honoring God!





    P.s: Good for you! I think it's great that you are so concerned with God's desires for your life and focusing on honoring him. Remember to pray and ask him to lead you in the right direction of picking a career path.





    Good luck, I'll be praying for you!
    You don't have to become a pastor or a missionary to honor God. You can do that in any profession, the best thing to do is to pray and ask God what HE wants you to do.
    Study Chaplaincy...
    Maybe Catholic Social Justice or something?


    Church musician, or religious instructor/advisor?
    Pray about it, and God will open then door that's right for you.
    We are created in his image, if you feel like you have a knack for something, than you should pursue it. If you want a job that suppoorts the church, perhaps you could look into historians at the vatican, cathedrals, or history museums (as most have some aspect of religion). Hope that helps
    God gave you talents %26amp; skills. Honor him by pursuing them, not by sacrificing them for some ';higher purpose.';
    what ever you chose, remember the younger generation look up to those before them, it has always been this way, therefor the saying you are your brothers keeper
    As long as you honor and glorify him in whatever you do, He will bless you. Shine for Jesus!
    You might discover the answer by attending a school where the goal is to prepare men and women to serve God.





    http://www.kingsseminary.edu/





    http://www.regentundergrad.com/





    I'm sure there are more.
    Just do what you want to do with your life- religion isn't supposed to be something to hold you back.


    I mean, as long as you don't plan on working the street corner or something like that, you're fine.
    Maybe just study what ur into like art, music, history and then work as a teacher in a Christian school?


    I would suggest u to pray and see what God tells u...

    How did moving in with your bf/gf change your relationship?

    For practical reasons, my bf and I have been talking about moving in together (we're both moving out of our parents' homes and could afford an apartment together when we couldn't afford one each yet!). We'll have been together for 7 months by the time we do it.





    I'd have ideally liked to have left it a year before living together, but circumstances mean that if we don't get an apartment together, the relationship will extremely long distance and hardly feasible!





    Any advice you can offer? How did moving in with a partner change your relationship?


    Thanks very much.How did moving in with your bf/gf change your relationship?
    youll find out things about him that you never would have found out otherwise. youll have to take it one day at a time but it all depends on how you approach it. just be aware that hes not perfect and youre not perfect. maybe for starters the two of you should get a two bedroom apartment if youre that uncomfortable that way you still have your own space. as time goes on you could sleep in the same room together and when one of you gets upset just go sleep in the other room. it will take some time getting used to at first though.How did moving in with your bf/gf change your relationship?
    My boyfriend and I have lived together since the beginning and it has been 3 years. And I'm not gonna lie, we fight alot more, lol, but we love each other, and he's my best friend, and when we are bored, we just have sex.
    Yeah i agree, get two bedrooms unless your ready for some snoring, late night Farts, Morning Breath? uh the worst! jk yeah if you do move in together best advice i can give you is make it a two bedroom you two need the space.

    How do I stop my insecurity (due to acne) from ruining my relationship with my boyfriend?

    Does anyone have any advice on how to not feel so insecure due to acne? I have bumps all over my face and I have already taken Accutane before. Nothing helps. I love my boyfriend very much...He is goregeous, has flawless skin...was a model. He says he loves me unconditionally and we have been together for over 2 years and my skin just gets worse...he hasn't dumped me yet so that is a good sign, but I get soo insecure that he will find a girl with flawless skin and I am so afraid of losing him...I am pushing him away because of it. I am pretty, but I feel my acne destroys the way I look, and my self-esteem. Does anyone have any tips on how to feel more secure in my skin and relationship since I have to live with acne?





    P.S. I appreciate the product/treatment advice everyone...however, BELIEVE ME! I have tried EVERYTHING under the sun! (Pro Active, Murad, Oral and Topical antibiotics, special diets, herbs, Differin, Retin-A, Benzoyl, Clindamycin, Sulfur, Erythtromycin, even went on Accutane for 6 months (this is only prescribed for bad and persistent acne because it carries the risk of serious side effects)...so I do appreciate the advice but I am looking for solutions on how to get past my insecurity, I have accepted that I will always have acne/scars. Thanks :))How do I stop my insecurity (due to acne) from ruining my relationship with my boyfriend?
    You will not always have acne. But I don't know how to help you except to let you know that I have gone through that too. I was about 28 and got furuncles, I didn't even want to go outside let alone to work. They are like large boils or carboncles all over my face and they hurt like crazy. I never had much trouble with acne in school. I finally went to a dermatologist and he lanced them and then injected an antibiotic into each. They finally went away and I never got any again. But I have some scarring from them to this day.How do I stop my insecurity (due to acne) from ruining my relationship with my boyfriend?
    If you have been together two years then im sure he loves you :)


    Dont worry too much about it, if he wanted anyone else he would have left you by now, think about it would you stay with someone for 2 years if you didnt love them? i know i wouldnt, lighten up and have fun :D good luck anyway hun even though im sure you dont need it :)
    Does he show you that he loves you? If so, don't worry about the acne scars. He loves you for you, for how you look, for who you are. Don't be afraid to love, and don't be afraid to be loved back.
    If he doesn't love you for who you are, then he is not worth your time. So, don't spend too much time worrying about it, especially if he has said that he loves you ';unconditionally';
    Keep telling yourself that your worth it and you will start to believe it! Good luck!





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    well as im sure other people have said, your bf said he loves you unconditionally and has done for 2 years, he probably means it. best way to beat your insecurity, would probably just think about your relationship. think, he was a model, no doubt pretty damn good looking. and being a model, hed be surrounded by other models, other beautiful women. out of all these beautiful women, he chose you. not only does that say something about him, that being that he obviously values someone for who they are,it also says something about you. you must be pretty damn special. would you rather end up some bimbo who has amazing looks but is a complete dipstick? or would you sacrifice some looks for personality which actually is worth a hell of a lot more. you are beautiful in every single way. dont tell yourself otherwise. think about this, we look back at teh stone age guys and think, man, those loincloths are the ugliest, most horrible cloths ever created. but back then, they probably thought the were the bees' friggin knees! who knows, 10 years from now, acne may be the new cool fashion statement!
    Honey, if there was a quick fix for insecurity, the whole world would be rainbows and butterflies.





    Maybe every time you start to worry about it, stop yourself and say:


    These feelings are a result of my perception that my acne is interfering with his love for me, but it is NOT a reflection of how he actually feels about me. He tells me he loves me and I deserve and accept that love.





    also there are ';holistic theories'; out there that acne is caused by repressed or unexpressed anger, and that until you deal with the anger, there isn't a product in the world that will cure your acne. I don't know if there's any truth to it, but its worth considering if nothing else has worked...

    One more question for you - how does this sound for a start?

    If you didn't see my other two questions, here's the deal: my friend and I want to make a website with high school help and advice. How do these topics sound?





    Starting/Being a Freshman


    - Information on orientation, the first few weeks, meeting new people, ';culture'; shock, teachers, etc.





    Getting Through


    - How to make the days more enjoyable and keep yourself motivated





    Friendship


    - Making and keeping friends and dealing with issues





    Relationships


    - Talking to people of the opposite sex, making a move, handling relationships





    Homework


    - How to do it, when to do it, where to do it, etc.





    Clubs/Activities


    - Advice for what to get involved in, what you can expect, the opportunities you have, etc.





    Is there anything you would remove or add? We're open to any ideas. Thank you again!One more question for you - how does this sound for a start?
    Looks good. How about a section on Transferring. It's definitely different than being a Freshman.One more question for you - how does this sound for a start?
    Sounds good, but as somebody mentioned in the last question a bullying section would be a REALLY good idea.
    You need a bullying section :( think of all the teens who would need it! :(





    Edit:


    Bullying


    - How you know you're being bullied


    - How to get help for bullying


    - What to do when others are being bullied





    I was harassed before, but didn't know how to handle it. (I'm sure people have been harassed before as well) Imagine if I did something really bad to myself, what if I had a website to help me with being bullied/harassed. You could possibly save a life (sorry if i sounded corny or stupid)

    How has Michael Jackson influenced the relationships in your life?

    How has Michael Jackson influenced the relationships in your life?


    Has mutual love for him given you friends, or has it strengthened already present relationships in your life?


    Has it caused you to dislike/think differently (of) someone?





    Thank you %26lt;3


    Ten months tomorrow, hope everyone is doing well.





    Only fans please, if you don't what that is... please give up.How has Michael Jackson influenced the relationships in your life?
    I don't think Michael Jackson or his death have had any influence on any of my current relationships or friendships with the people I know personally. The people I socialize with, who are people in my department from university - they're not really people who concern themselves at all with celebrity culture. It's not something that's ever been brought up - not in casual conversation or as jokes or anything. So I can't say any of my relationships have been altered in the slightest.How has Michael Jackson influenced the relationships in your life?
    Well, I have been listening to Michael's voice my entire life so his influence has been a lifelong progression. I remember being drawn to the radio and television as a tiny child whenever I would hear is angelic voice. I loved looking at his big doe-eyes and it was as if I could somehow ';feel'; love coming straight from him! When I was old enough to understand the words he used, either singing or in interviews i felt ';connected'; to him because I was also very sensitive and wanted to show love to anyone that I could. As a teen, I'd read his interviews and listen to what he'd say on tv and it just kept me so calm and full of love. When you look around it's sometimes very hard to believe in love, but hearing loving words come from Michael always kept me encouraged. Then I remember him talking about God. He said he always wondered how people could look around and NOT believe in God. He spoke of the planets in the skies, babies, flowers, etc... When my world felt like it was crashing in on me and I wanted to give up I'd cry myself to sleep listening to Michael and no matter how awful I felt I'd wake up inspired by LOVE...really.


    So, in essence, Michael influenced me by being so loving, and that helped me to stay grounded and to NOT give up on love, whether it be love of family, friends or Strangers. I know that Jesus IS Love, Michael just reminded and inspired me NOT to forget!


    This is a wonderful question by the way!
    He's changed how I judge people.
    I've always been a huge fan of Michael but it's like when he died I understood his message about loving people and just caring about the world more. I try to not pass judgment on a person until I've spoken to them one on one :)
    I think I have increased the compassion I feel for people who have suffered or are suffering.
    Healzzz it's Gabby! xD %26lt;33


    LOL interesting question...


    actually, yeah, it has, but not necassarily in a good way.... no one at my school likes MJ except for me and one other person, other than that, everyone HATESSSS him!!


    Now I am known at school as ';That girl who's obsessed with Michael Jackson.'; Ugh.


    All the popular kids make fun of me because I like MJ and they purposely talk bad about him right in front of me to see my reaction, but I'm really shy and don't wanna get into anything so I just ignore it...


    But it has actually gotten to the point that I get so scared whenever someone plays music at school, because I'm worried that they will play an MJ song and start making fun of me...


    =/


    And I have made about 3 enemies from school JUST because I am an MJ fan, they started hating me and making fun of me just because I like Michael Jackson! Oh gimme a break! ugh.


    On the other hand..... one of my friend's whom I was never too close to really likes Michael Jackson, and she is like the only person other than me who likes him at my school, and I have become so much closer to her, and MJ is all we talk about xP haha.


    And then of course there is the guy issue... MJ is so perfect that every guy when put next to him seems like he'd be a horrible boyfriend! rofl Michael seemed like he'd be such a perfect man(: %26lt;3





    Oh that's right.... a 2 digit number since MJ has died tomorrow ='( *SIGH*


    Maybe i'll watch This Is It...





    Have a good day %26lt;33
    Well me and my friend are sort of closer as we both like him. Other than that, he doesn't affect my relationships.






    uhmm i know how to have manners, thank you very much. i dont need a strangers' influence to ';be nice';. i get that from my parents.
    Friendship %26lt;3





    I care more, about things too.
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    please read this





    the past month has been really tough for me. i had what i thought was my first great relationship with a guy i reeaally truly cared about. however, he was depressed, but it i didn't think much of it. after about 2 months into our relationship i guess i started acting different, and i think his personality and actions rubbed off on me, including his depression. a few weeks ago i found out that he liked another go. the day after, he broke up with me, saying he rushed into our relationship and we didn't have much in common. after that, we never talk.





    i honestly miss him. we just went on a school band vacation, and some things happened to him that i didn't know about, caused by his depression. i felt so bad because i wasn't even around to comfort him, i didn't even hang out with him. I miss him so much, its unbarable. i dont really know what to do.





    so pretty much, i'm sad all the time, im not excited about things like my first roller coast that i just went on and i actually faked being a little excited, even my friends are noticing my behavior, and i'm having so many problems with friends fighting and all these things that just cause me to cry all the time, and i dont know, im just different. before i was probably the most outgoing bubbly girl you could meet, but now i guess i'm boring, i dont know i just hate this.





    pleaseee tell me what the hell is going on. this started before the break up but it just got worse. is it possible for depression to rub off on someone in a case like this? what do i do if i think i'm depressed? i dont know how to talk to my parents about this.





    please helppp. thanks if you do. (:I think i'm depressed, i don't know what to do! please help :(?
    Hey! This is an opportunity. Learn from it, but don't waste any time. Take the attitude that if he doesn't want me, I don't want him-but more! Put on some music, get in your room and redo it all. Make up your mind you wouldn't have him if he came crawling back-in fact, he might. If so, reject him right up front. Tomorrow, when you walk out you will be back to your old self, but better. Change your hair, wear something zowie and go for the kill. Look your best and flirt with every male you see. This is going to give your ego a boost %26amp; make new friends. He is not worth the dirt on your feet. You might just notice he was dragging you down. If he was depressy at 15, at 25 he would be a real snooze. You are worth 12 of him and never forget it! Now get busy!I think i'm depressed, i don't know what to do! please help :(?
    sounds like a heart break but here are some website to check and see if you have depression
    Heartbreak is a very unfortunate thing we teenagers feel. And although we know he's ';just some boy';, and that we're ';young'; and that there is ';other fish in the sea';, it still hurts, because our feelings at the time are true.





    What happened was inevitable and a part of life. You may one day be in his situation; you never know.





    But anyway, aside from those words of wisdom, you may be depressed. Symptoms of depression are:


    - loss of interest in once enjoyable activities


    - crying, withdrawal, isolation


    - sleeping differently (less or more sleep than usual)


    - suicidal / homicidal thoughts


    - straight-up misery





    Depression is typically defined as ';sadness or misery for 2 or more weeks';.





    So, if you fit this, you're likely to be depressed.


    I would try spending time with friends and breaking out of your shell. If you've had a history of depression, or several instances which you have felt depressed (or ONE instance in which you've felt suicidal), then you have a problem and need to talk to your parents about counseling. Either way, talk to your parents if you have a decent relationship with them, and if not, impart in a friend. Even if you don't have a decent relationship with your parents, this is something you should tell them for the sake of telling them.





    I've had depression. Not from heartbreak, but I started getting depressed around age 12-13. I'm 16 now. I got counseling about 8 months ago and I'm doing MUCH, much better. And my depression was severe.





    The key to helping your depression is READING about depression, becoming aware of yourself, and taking steps to feel better (even if you don't want to). That is how someone fights depression. Trust me, I know.





    Much love!

    How do white guys feel about most white women preferring black men?

    And please don't say ONLY fat white girls prefer black men because that's sooo not true.





    In fact, all I ever see are fairly attractive to very attractive white girls dating black men over their own. My friend who's white is very attractive (ex-model) and she only dates black professional men.





    However, I date mostly white men, my daughter's father is white, and I'm also currently in a relationship with a white man from Europe. So this doesn't affect me at all. I'm just curious.How do white guys feel about most white women preferring black men?
    I know





    White women love us





    They even go so far to travelling to places like the carribean


    to find black men





    peep this right here


    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pgZN0g0a6鈥?/a>How do white guys feel about most white women preferring black men?
    Most white women prefer white men, As white men prefer white women. Most people marry within their race; including black men. Not all black men want or date white women. Your friend is one of the few exceptions. Most of the less desirable white women tend to date black men. White men normally aren't attracted to over weight/ unattractive women, Black men and other minority men are more excepting. When a white man dates a black woman shes usually, but not always, educated, thin and prettier than the average white woman. Think Iman and David Bowie.
    You have no stats to back up your claim (Because they don't exist) so this is your opinion based on what you see in your area.





    In truth, most races tend to stay with their own race. It's what is familiar and comfortable.There are always exceptions to the rule, like your friend, but in general I think you are projecting and not offering anything based in reality.
    White men probably don't care, black women have the issue with it they feel like white women are stealing all the black men, well that's what I hear from my friends. I mean retaliate date their men, I know I'm tired of black men so white guys are next on my agenda.





    EDIT: Inca Ognito see I love seeing women like this stand up for your kids, hating on us bi-racials, I know my hair is good and i'm light skinned white people try and tan to get my complexion.
    Where do you get the idea that it's ';most'; white women? You sound kinda dumb.


    Becky J is a troll of the worst kind. My kids aren't nappy haired(it's really soft and curly), nor mud skinned. White people PAY to get the color my kids have. Becky J looks like death and decay.





    Edit: Quite a few white women-especially celebrities, also pay to get the beautiful full-lipped look that my kids have naturally. So suck a big black c*ck with those thin nasty lips you got...
    im going to skip over the ';most'; you posted but you should read this question and some of the answers. thats how some people feel, take it or leave it.





    Gig is right? most is over doing it.





    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>





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    None of you guys know **** of what ur talking about! who cares that white women date black men. They dont have to be fat, all types of white women date black men, because they want to. And iof white men dont like it then who cares. lets quit grouping things racially! We have a black president!
    Ok I think you exaggerate when you say MOST white women. If that were the case every other couple would literally be of a white woman and a black man and that's NOT the case at all. Some do like them but not MOST.
    I don't care how white guys feel. I'm just not attracted to them, as a kid I was but now I just prefer black guys. My bf is black.
    Color is never an issue w/ me, per se, BUT your first sentence is 100% true, from what I've personally seen. They seem to LOVE those fat @sses!!!!!!!!





    :o)
    Oh gosh this cheese cake pink dick loving annoying hoooe is back. Please dissapear again b iiiotch.
    Forestfire in the a s s
    Not true. Most white women date and marry white men.
    LMAO@ the user ';..............';! That was harsh.


    Most white girls like white guys.
    if that were true, most americans would be bi-racial at this point.
    Lol not actually hey.
    Is that true! Well screw you white women!! I only like Asians!!
    why are u asking if your already in an innteracial relatonship.arent you to young to b a mom
    i don't find alot of them attractive...alot i do...alot a do not








    YOUR WORST TYPE OF UNCLE TOM...EVER
    Good question I am sure some egos are bruised
    Only in America. Because the white men there can hardly be called men, and those fat obese slobs have been rejected by their own kind. 99% of white women prefer white men. Some date blacks out of pity or because they are getting desperate, nice try.
    You are completely delusional. Most white women have high standards. I would never have anything to do with a black guy.
    I feel sorry for their future children
    Keep dreaming........
    i would never date a black guy eww %26gt;..%26lt;

    Relationship?

    Can any ladies tell me what it means when a women ends a relationship after a WONDERFUL year and says that ';there is something missing';? I am confused, we were great together, never fought, I treated her well, we had a lot of physical chemistry....and how long do you think I should wait before talking to her or should I just give up?Relationship?
    Just let it go man. ';Something missing'; is a save your feelings expression. You go digging more and you are sure to not like what she has to say. Keep the breakup clean and nice, like it has been, and you will not have to hate each other. She has the right to her feelings about your not being her ';forever';. Dig as much as you like, but be prepared for the outcome to be a lot more painful.Relationship?
    give up man
    Maybe she just wasnt ready for a relationship.
    don't give up on love. Just talk to her and let her know that what ever is missing. that you will find a way to bring it back into the relationship. if that is what you want.





    Good Luck
    Ask her seriously ';wot is missing';.......she has 2 let u know. If she does not want to tell you then blow it off. I hurts BUT u will have 2 let go. Move on.
    Quite possibly she needs a little romance, a little challenge, some women, less then mature, are looking for ';excitement';. The settled down relationship, is comforting, but somewomen, like drama. It helps them sow their female oats and that is how they figure out which man they want and what kind of man they want for their life.
    if she dumps you, she's missing out on something....only she can answer that....move on!
    Unless she sees your relationship very differently or there is another man she is interested in -this just doesn't make sense. I definately think you should call her and tell her you don't understand why she wants to end things. If she is set on it you will understand but you would like some insight as to why because you want to know where things went wrong. I hope she will tell you so you can see if it is indeed the relationship or something going on with her. Good Luck
    Well it must not have been so wonderful for her,, she was looking for something you were not offering,, move on,
    If the relationship was so wonderful, why did you break??? Did you ask her?? You should talk to her, before someone else moves in!!
    Well sounds like she wasn't feeling the same as you, that she wasn't as into as you were? I would wait awhile and then text her or send her a email and say you would like to remain friends and go from there!
    There is something missing all right.. Communication.. You let her tell you that without asking WHAT?





    If you want to continue the relationship, you may want to think about jumping on this and NOW... Ask her to define ';what's missing?';





    I don't want to rush to judgement here, but that answer is way too vague. Either she said something more and you're not telling us. OR She is trying to let you down easy because she's found another guy that she wants to try out. If it doesn't work out, she can say, ';I guess I was just getting cold feet. I'm sorry to put you through that... I'm sorry my little poopsy, will ou forgive me?';





    When the baby talk starts, you know she's trying to defuse the situation... That's when you say, ';You're right, there is something missing... your commitment to me as a real loving woman!!!';
    Yeh been there before. Forget about her as hard as it sounds. You will forever be worrying about whether she will pull this crap out of the blue again. Find someone who will respect you and appreciate you. Move on my friend I promise you will be happier.

    Relationship?

    What can i do to get the most of a relationship? I dont mean sex.. I mean love... How can i make that girl want me more minute by minute , think of me every minute and want to be with me evry second? Is there any ways that i can make a girl love me so much?..Relationship?
    Remember that girls fall in love with their EARS.Relationship?
    jst try n be her best frend as a gal try 2 find its lover in her best frend

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    You want someone to be obsessed with you and think about nothing else only a robot is like that, No one thinks about anyone else all the time. People have studies jobs to think about, however much someone loves you they cannot think about you all the time. God loves you though and You are special to God, he has an everlasting love for you, discover how much God loves you you are the apple of his eye. You know you could scare girls away bu being so demanding. Relax stop looking for love in others. Learn to love yourself as well, you are important and special. God loves you just as you are when you relize this you will stop looking for it in others. The more you value yourself the more you will attract the right person for the right reasons. take care God bless Denise.
    you can never make anyone love you they have to get to know you first.First comes lust then love.Goodluck on that 1=)
    You can't make her love you. Just be yourself, don't put up a front. Girls can straight through that. Spend time withher, make her feel special.

    Relationship?

    My ex partner %26amp; I have been living apart for almost a year now. We were trying to get back together, but are having a hard time of it because of her wanting to keep her ex in the picture. She is always calling the ex %26amp; seeing the ex whenever possible. The ex lives in Kansas. The ex even gives her money. She never tells me when she does this. She said because she doesn't like my reaction to it, but they are only friends and she loves me. Why does she have to have a relationship with her ex if I feel threathened by it. I don't know her ex %26amp; she makes it a point that we do not meet or talk to one another. This does not make since to me. I have never heard of anyone always calling their ex %26amp; making it a point to go see them whenever they go to Kansas, plus the ex gives her money. How do you work things out to get back together if this ex is always in the pictures. The ex even writes her letters %26amp; sends them to Texas. I don't even know what they say.Relationship?
    Well, I don't think she's being too respectful of ya'lls relationship here.....I think u2 need a good talk about it. I wish you well

    Relationship?

    my ex fiance and i were dating for about 2 years, when i discover he was with another woman who was his ex girlfriend before i come into the picture, even thougth we were not living together i made sure every weekends i go and see him, we were in a long distance relationship, now i can't cope with anything it has been three months still i think about him and they are planing to get married it realy breaks my heart, why did he had to play me like this, i did everything for him, when i finded out that he was 2 timing both of us i went mad and told him every **** words i could find, but i never told him how i feel and how much he hurt me because he is a sturborn man, i don't think i will ever find another man i will love as much as i loved him, i will never find my true love, help me i cannot cope, how do i move on and forget about himRelationship?
    I know it's hard, but you have to realize how lucky you are to be out of the relationship if he was two timing you. Try and look at it realistically. If you had stayed with him and gotten married - he probably still would have cheated on you. True love is hard to find and it will happen when you least expect it. Allow yourself some time to grieve and heal. But also be kind to yourself. Do something nice for yourself - get a hair cut, buy a new outfit, treat yourself to a nice dinner, go hang out with friends. And remember that you are better off being alone for the right reasons than being with someone for all the wrong reasons. It does get better and the right one will come along. But also remember that you are a complete and wonderful person even if you aren't in a relationship. You don't need a man to complete you. Peace.Relationship?
    Time, only time will help.


    The expression ';time heals old wounds '; is a true one. Wait and see.
    there is a famous quote about putting things behind you ';put things behind you';
    It takes time. You WILL get over it and find someone else and be happy. I know its the hardest thing in the world but you will move on. Try to stay busy and spend time with friends and family who love you.





    Good Luck!
    Take some self-esteem classes hon, you have none!





    Don't you realize what a fool he was to two-time someone as wonderful as you? He's not your true love, he's an idiot who missed out on a good thing.





    Whenever you start thinking those ';oh I miss him, woe is me'; thoughts, change the tape and think ';Whew! Am I lucky! Now the real Mr. Right can come into my life';
    it will be hard for you sweet heart but you will learn to move on and it will take time. allow your self to grieve and be mad. i feel for you and wish that i could give you a hug....take care and god bless.
    Read carefully what ';shadowtwi'; had to say. Sounds spot on! I think you are the lucky one, his partner should be worried.


    If they will do it for you, they will do it to you...
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    My bf %26amp; I had been together fo 6 years. but i think now it's time to split up. There are a lot of problems between us, problems can't be solved. I really can't hold on to this relationship anymore. He is 7 years older than me, andwe planned to married next year...How am i going to tell him that this relationship won't work, and won't last?? The problem is me, I changed.Relationship?
    tell him the truth don't lead him on any further if your certain you want to end it, as you said tell him exactly that ';The problem is you, and that you've changed and thereis problems that can't be solved.Relationship?
    Of course you changed- its been 6 years. The problem is that the two of you didnt change together. Have you been trying to deal with these issues at all? have you even brought them up to him?
    Be honest and talk to him, let him know how you feel. You do not have any control as to how he will handle it. If you can't communicate this break up, how will you be able to communicate any sensitive issue once you are married?
    just say it.... or then let time pass.. marry him and be miserable ........ then divorce him 5 years, two kids and ten pounds later.
    just tell him the real reason, i know it;s hard for him to accept cuz as what you've said you've already planned to be married next year... i'd been to the same situation 1 year ago.. i had this guy and we've been together for 4 years and our parents already met and talked about the application of marriage license but after a few months... i changed, the feelings changed (i fell out of love).. i was actually thinking of the years we've spent together and all the things that we did but i also have to consider that it would be for a lifetime... so what i did was to tell him the truth, that i changed, that the problem is not him but it's me... remember that what is at stake is your life time life, so if you think you don't love him anymore then tell him rather than cheating yourself and him... just tell him, he'll still be hurt even if you'll try to do it in any way... it's the same thing, it still hurts... that's the way it is... he has to understand that love is a gamble...GO! GO! jia you! :-)
    Hi,


    You need to face this. He needs to accept this. The fact is you have changed, there is nothing like he is 7 years older to you etc. The problems you said you find now and are not solvable all are alos because you want to justify what is going through your mind. But your final statement put it very truly. You changed. This is what a guy gets after having a 6 year relation with a woman. If a guy did this to a woman, many peoiple would have screamed over their heads as to how unfair he is! Now, it is so simple, ';I changed!'; There is no easy way. You have to face it. tell him you chanegd. Tell him just that. Dont tell he is 7 years older or the million problems you found that are not solvable. Okay. Just be brave and bold enough to take charge of the situation and tell him your changed and hence you could not continue this relation. Make sure atleast he has some people to take care of him, call in his friends to support him. All the best.

    Relationship?

    I am in this relationship with this amazing guy, but the thing is, sometimes I feel that he don't care. He's scared that his mom might get mad at him cause his mom might cut off everything. I wanna be a good girlfriend, but I feel I'm taking too much of his time. I need him too, I mean he doesn't have time for me. Should I not pick up his phone calls to see how he likes it? I can't talk about it with him cause then I'd sound selfish.Relationship?
    If you can't talk to him about it then honestly he isn't as amazing as you say

    Relationship?

    Me and my new girlfriend have a long distant relatioinship. I want to keep her pleased and our relationship to work out. i like her alot. so what kind of conversation can i have with her. what do girls like talking about with their boyfriends. how do i make a long distant relatioinship workout. thanks all ideas appreciatedRelationship?
    well long distance relationship r really impossible to keep..sooner than later 1 partner feels need of warmth and all the efforts u had put in relationship comes to naught.. u start to seem like unnecessary burden...but if u must then talk about everything just not love or future..anything under the sun..but importantly listen to her a lot..u may talk about sports, poems, share jokes, cars, politics anything or even ur frustrations..

    Relationship?

    I date my boyfriend for four month now I really love him but the things that coming in the relationship like we aruge once in the while and he get mad if I go hang out with an old ex's who happened to be my good friend now I can understand how other partner wouldn't like that idea their partner hanging with old ex but we just friend nothing more and when I tell him that's a guy fliring with me or talking to or giving me compliment on my look he get jealous and get mad don't want to talk to me walk way and when he have a personal problem with work,family or friend he get moody and put on me which I don't really like Other then that he a loving, sweet, caring and romantic guy sweep off my feet but lately I don't know if I can handle the relationship aruge, his moody and his insecurity I know everyone have problem in their relationship and I know relationship is alots of work to keep it up even tho I'm not marriage it just like keep marriage together I love him what should I do?Relationship?
    As a guy I can understand his frustration, but I've been there on both sides of the situation and you have to understand the following: relationships are about trust, and its a matter of your boyfriend trusting you regarding this, but at the same time, put yourself in his shoes. If you would get equally upset, then you can't be a hypocrite and expect him to be cool with it. Relationships are hard work and its a 2 way street, that's why the call it commitment. Good luck with this.Relationship?
    being faithful is one of the most important aspects of any relationship

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    your not going to want to hear this but you CAN NOT go to your exs house after a fight with bf. It would be ok for you to do things with your ex occasionally like meet for lunch if you truely are friends but if you have a boyfriend with trust issues who is insecure and when you guys fight you leave him to go hang out with your ex. That makes him feel like you are leaving him for your ex and that your ex is better for you than he is. If you know that a guy is flirting with you and your boyf is there and he doesnt like it you should make it clear to the guy that you have a boyfriend.


    If you are not willing to do these things then you will end up losing him eventually. remember that it is usually the jealous guy in a relationship that is searching for attention and is not getting it. he will look for this attention if you do not provide it.

    Relationship ????

    ok i just broke up with my gf last night,it is because i realize she doesn't really trust me. and im so tired hearing all those crap and etc. we have worked it out for so many times its just, i had enough. i love her but sometimes love isn't just enough to keep me holding on. and she said she's happy and she moved on like 1 week before i broke up with her. isn't it crazy?? so like i wanna move on but i don't how? i still love her but i don't want the relationship anymore? is this normal?Relationship ????
    yes it is because you still care a lot. just give yourself enough time to let go.

    How do I tell my parents about my online relationship?

    I've been in a relationship with a girl that I met online for about a year now and the stress of not telling my parents has been killing me over the last few weeks. We both live in the UK, about 2 hours away from each other but I have not met her in real life but I have talked to her on MSN with microphone and video calls. I love her so much, and she loves me too but I'm so scared of what will happen if my parents find out. When I started using the internet for forums ETC my parents both told me to be careful, that the internet can be a dangerous place and I'm worried what to say if I tell them that I've met someone online and been in a relationship with them after what they said to me. I'm worried that they'll force me to break up with her. I really need help on this, I can't hide it from them any longer...How do I tell my parents about my online relationship?
    I think you should meet her in a nice public place, make sure she's really who she claims to be... then invite her to meet your parents in person.How do I tell my parents about my online relationship?
    First, ask to meet up with her.If you only live two hours away, it shouldn't be a problem. Invite her to your house and your parents will meet her there.


    Then tell them you met online.


    They'll take it less bad once they've actually seen her. They might give you a lecture though.
    there are many ways you could do this.


    1. just come right out with it. ';mum and dad ive been in a online relationship for a year!


    2. say you have something to show them and let them talk to the girl online and see her so that they know she is not a fake?


    3. write a letter explaining everything..





    i do feel its a bit wierd that you have not met this girl in person in a year? but if you are happy.. thats all that matters, hope your parents realise that too
    just tell em mom dad i have an online repationship. Becareful though they might be preditors
    Can't you two just like each other a whole lot? People who live with their parents and are afraid to tell them things just seem too young to be declaring all this loving so much stuff.





    Do you feel this grown up with girls you get to actually see everyday? Is it possible that being ';secretly'; in love is part of the glorious fantasy?





    Here's what parents fear about the internet and with good cause. They fear that their kids are going to start acting, believing, and doing things that they'd never do in real life and with real people in their daily lives. The fact that you have been having a ';relationship'; with a gal for over a year who only lives two hours away and have never met in person suggests to me that you are still quite young. Otherwise you could have borrowed a car or taken a bus and been home for supper without your parents even knowing what was up. As it is, you do imply that you've been sneaking around so what's the difference?





    Tell them. You want to. You feel the need to. Just do it. But chill on how much ';in love'; you two are. Say you like her a lot and have gotten to know her pretty well and would like to meet her.

    Do I need to change or does my girlfriend?

    I have been dating my girlfriend for a year. She is 24 and I'm 31. Because of my age I have been through lots of relationships and just life in general. I feel like my girlfriend has a lot to learn specifically about being in a serious relationship. She is needy, jealous, smothering, and always comes to me crying about some new problem in her life.


    I like her and want things to work between us and so I try to gently explain why things such as being smothering can't work in a relationship. She always takes it like a slap in the face, gets extremely defensive and upset.


    I am simply at a loss as to how to address these issues.Do I need to change or does my girlfriend?
    Dude I know what you mean! I have been there! If you are in for the long haul (if you love her) then stick it out and she will grow up. Everyone has thier breaking point though. If you have any doubt about your feelings after a year then you need to make a clean break because it will take YEARS for her to calm downDo I need to change or does my girlfriend?
    if it bothers you then maybe you should move on. She is young and since your going out of course coming to you with all these problems in her life is like she thinks of you as her soul mate. since your not cuz your not legally married to her then it can get frustrating. as for jealousy in a relationship it just doesnt work. if she cant learn to trust you then she needs to let go of you. as for the smothering part its hard because when she isnt around its as if you want her to smother you but when she is around you can only take so much. your at an age where you know what you want and dont want to play around. letting her know that should be offensive to her at all. in other words she's simply not ready for a serious relationship.
    Gentle doesn't cut it if you think she's all the things you've described. You likely come across as dismissive and that's why she's defensive. Address this by finding someone closer to your own age or experience level and you will both be much happier. You won't need to explain yourself and she won't have to justify anything.
    It's hard, I know because I am going through the same thing. However, I am not smothering or needy (at least I don't think I am). Even if you are telling her how it is because you have that experience you shouldn't change yourself. You have that upper hand in relationships and in life. She should respect the fact that you are telling her like it is. I know I do with my boyfriend (30-23) tells me. I say don't change what you're doing.
    you just described like over 80% of women. i understand you have been through many relationships. but you need to show her you care and listen to what she has to say. and smothering can get out of hand some times so she might have to cool that down if she's over obsessive. personally i think that your relationship is on thin ice man. but all i can say is give her attention.
    I'm in the same kind of relationship. Ive talked to him about it and we are both changing for each other. But, always keep in mind, you cant change everything about her.
    You can't change her. If you don't like her behavior, this relationship may be over.
    Give her time, you are much more matured than her. Try talking to her nicely. Dont forget she's much younger than you are, she will mature more in time to come.
    two things you need to take into consideration for me bro 1 you get the upsides of a 24 year old maybe the immaturity is part of the package and 2 all women are neurotic as hell if you let them be i'm only 18 but even i know if your missus comes at you to complain about something you let her complain until her hearts content and you pretend to agree with her sorry man but for a 31 yr old rookie error
    Never change your self, she likes you.
    If you explained to her that you don't like the smothering etc and she starts whining than maybe you need a new girlfriend. You should never change who you are for anybody. I'm all for compromise but it seems like she's not holding up her end of the deal on that.
    I don't know if you're willing to take advice from an eighteen year old (XP) but here it is anyway:





    Have you tried accepting her? Extremely sensitive people (which is the kind of person she sounds like) can often mistake criticism, even the extremely constructive kind, for outright rejection.





    I don't know if you've already gone this course and found that it didn't work, but if you haven't yet done so, try letting her know that you're completely fine with who she is. Try to be patient. Work things through with her - but ONLY if she comes to you first. One cannot help those who will not help themselves.





    And if all else fails, ditch her like dirty bathwater and let someone else take the responsibility. Seriously. If you can't help her with her problems, then you might just be leeching up time from her life that could be spent with someone who can.





    Hope that helps. ^-^

    Help! How should I break up with my boyfriend of 3 years?

    Okay, My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 3 years and have broken up a couple have times. Mostly my doing. I always go back to him though because it seems I a a bit of a push over and he knows exactly what to say to get me back. Lately he has been drinking a lot and it seems as though all he wants is sex and that is NOT how I want this relationship to continue on. We also have been fighting constantly about tons of things. It's not anything big but we just bicker all the time! I need help because I want out of this relationship before he ends up proposing or something and its too late.Help! How should I break up with my boyfriend of 3 years?
    Tell him the truth about how you feel. Ask him to remain your friend. Good luckHelp! How should I break up with my boyfriend of 3 years?
    tell him you dont just want sex and youre sick of his drinking


    Then just dump him





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    I am going to be frank, 3 years off and on... is not 3 years at all. You should have never gone back to him. It's better to be single for 3 years than go through 3 years of bs.





    Trust me, I went through 2 years of this kind of crap and I got sick of it. If I break up with them once I don't go back to them again because the original reason we split is probably still there or is going to come back up.

    How do you tell a Sagittarius to get lost?

    This guy has been chasing for 4 months now, I keep on making excuses not to go out, and I even told him I don't want to get hurt I don't want a relationship right now. He freaked out on me and started getting densive and he said he got offended when this is not even about him. So after that he still calls and stuff, but I wanna let him down easy, without saying it right to his face again because he takes it personally





    Scorpio/ Aries moonHow do you tell a Sagittarius to get lost?
    Just tell him to leave you alone.How do you tell a Sagittarius to get lost?
    Ignore him either that, or lay it down in full detail u don't wanna around especially near you, he's annoying bothersome, i've tolerated u for as long as ur gonna take he's pissin u off and to get lost, gotta make sure he doesn't find anyway to get involved with you, then if he still bothers u threaten him with some male relatives or file a restraining order he could be a psycho i'm not sure what ya really dealn with here V.V
    Sweetie, you HAVE to get in his face about it. It's been FOUR, long months and he still won't leave you alone. It may hurt his feelings, but tell him to his face he needs to stop calling you because you've told him you don't want to be in a relationship.





    He should get the point after that.
    Just tell him he has a small penis LOL... that should scare him off :0)
    Tell him to go *** himself ur not interested.





    Tell him that to his face, Missy.

    I have been dating a man for 6 months. When we first met our goals were...?

    to find the right person and get married and start a family. He is 37 and I am 30. He has never been married and I am divorce, neither have children. We have had talks as to how our relationship is going and both think it is going on well. I am a little concern because after 6 months of being together, he has never said 'I love you' to me. I have not said it to him either because of that. I dunno if it is still too early in our relationship to know if it is love or maybe he is shying away from a commitment (that he loves me). He also says he would like to get married someday, but if it doesn't happen, he would be ok with that too. I don't know if i am wasting my time. So now my question is....Do you think after 6 months should he know he loves me and tell me or do you think he is just leading me on and doesn't want the commitment? I should move on?

    Can anyone describe how Anna Frank's behavior is?

    has anyone read the diary of anne frank?! I really hope you have. Because i need some help! I need to know how her behavior,attitudes, and relationships develop during the play. I just need one paragraph. Thanks to anyone who helps me out, thanks a ton!Can anyone describe how Anna Frank's behavior is?
    read the book....Can anyone describe how Anna Frank's behavior is?
    Do you know why she addressed her imaginary friend as ';Kitty';? That was because she loved cats and at one time had four of her own.
    Here's some help writing your paragraph. Ask yourself these questions:





    How old was Ann? Did she have to grow up under unusual circumstances?


    How did Ann feel about the people around her, like her family and others hiding with her?


    How did Ann feel about the people who wanted to harm her and her family?





    Did Ann have any wishes or dreams? Was Ann a normal teenager?
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    my relationship with this chick just ended. She has a new boyfriend. I havnt really spoke to her in months til yesterday. I texted her and told her if she was happy then i was happy for her and told her I was doing amazing. should i just back off and wait now?How to get her back after 4 months?
    If she's happy then don't mess with things. Unless she means that much to you then don't risk her feelings. I think it would be nice to be her friend though unless it would be too painful (know how that goes)How to get her back after 4 months?
    YOUR EXACTLY LIKE MY BF THAT LIKE TO PLAY IT OFF LIKE YOUR DOING EVEN BETTER THAN WHAT YOU REALLY R...





    WELL MY BF AND I BROKE UP AFTER 1 YEAR AND 5MONTHS OF BEING TOGETHER AND 4 MONTHS LATER RANDOMLY HE TXT ME ASKING ME THE SAME THING CUZ I HAD A NEW BF AND HE FOUGHT FOR ME UNTIL HE GOT ME BACK AND NOW WE'VE BEEN TOGETHER FOR MORE THAN 3 YEARS..





    SO THE MORAL OF MY STORY IS THAT YEA YOU CAN GET HER BACK IF YOU THINK THERE'S STILL A CHANCE SHE STILL LOVED YOU... I SAY FIGHT FOR WHAT YOU WANT... DON'T LET HER GO AND TELL HER NOW HOW MUCH YOU WANT HER BACK...
    If she has a new boyfriend that she is happy with hell yeah you better back off.